i'm only a woman if woman is a word.

i let go of rich, entirely - and i've told him so. it's so final but it's refreshing. his dodgy stuff from our past, the way he never let me in properly, the way i hung on in hope a lot over the years -- and i was doing that again this year! leaving him behind in 2020. it's a major decision, but i know that it makes room and space for people more aligned on my road to join me. i thank him for all the years - i'm glad we didn't quite make it to two decades. some people are not meant to be in each other's lives forever. he was p much the longest though, unless Chris..