and breathe, and relax, and remember you're setting up for better.

i've pretty much ended things with rich, i may give a chance for final says and thank yous and goodbyes. but i think it's done, and it feels good. i don't tolerate abusive behaviour/things that may not be abusive but are exact stonewalling behaviours that don't help and only remind me of my trauma. there are healthier ways, and communicative ways. so yes, now i make space for the people and things i do choose. i'll get to my people eventually. i make the most and am grateful for those i have now.